Tonight’s theme is ‘dominance and submission’, the ritual of one person giving another control over them in an erotic encounter. Both parties take pleasure from either dominating or being dominated.
Set the mood
Set the mood by putting on a bit of dominatrix inspired music such as Juliet’s Ride the Pain and pour your lover a Blue Whip to enjoy with the music.
What to wear
Wear something sexy in black with leather/faux leather.
Dinner
For tonight’s dinner try, Lasagna al Forno
For a vegetarian option, try Spinach and Cream Cheese Lasagna
Accompany either dish with a fresh greens salad.
For dessert, try Choccy mousse.
Wine pairing: Choose a Chianti to match either dish.
Prelude
Tonight decide who will play the role of dominatrix and who will play the submissive. Dress up the part as much as you can, and don’t forget to bring a whip or a cat o’ nine tails. The dominatrix should prepare in advance a list of demands to impose on her submissive. Here is a list of possible demands the submissive could be subjected to. Don’t forget to use the whip throughout the activities to ensure she behaves.
- Lick my boots
- Lick between my legs
- Massage my back
- Feel yourself, your breasts, inner thighs…so I can see it
- Crawl from one end of the room to the other, naked and passing through the dominatrix’s legs
- Tell her to spread oils on herself, or on your body
Ensure she uses her tongue as often as possible. Enjoy playing with power, pleasure and pain. Reverse roles next time because you know you both deserve to be punished.
Sex Position – Rough Guidance
While still in the dominatrix and submissive roles, have the submissive lie on her back with her hands behind her buttocks. The dominatrix should sit on the submissive’s face, in order to receive oral, at her command. She should hold the whip and nudge her submissive on, encouraging faster or slower movements. The submissive will helplessly obey, what else can she do?
Sex positions are intended to be a starting point, feel free to move on to other positions or modify for your own preferences.
After sex
Relax afterwards listening to Anna Novak’s Dominatrix while you sip an Espresso Martini.
Have Fun!
LMT
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*These are the opinions of Lesbian Moms Today. They are not intended to be a solution to any particular issue. Each situation is unique and must be approached with the individual’s unique personality in mind. Lesbian Moms Today is not responsible for any injuries sustained during the suggested acts.
