Set the mood
Start your evening by lighting a few candles and putting on a little Queen Latifah music, her Dana Owens album is smooth and sexy.
Offer your lover a tasty mixed drink; Black Magic is a nice choice. Enjoy it as you relax to the soothing music.
What to wear
Dress in something smooth and seductive in dark purple or black.
Try Jamie Oliver’s Beef Tagine for your main course tonight, serve it with seasoned couscous.
For a vegetarian option, try Anjum Anand’s Gold Coin Curry
Wine pairing: Choose a Cabernet Sauvignon to compliment either dish.
Tonight’s prelude takes place in the living room, you will perform a lap dance for your lover. Make sure she is sitting somewhere comfortable, either on the couch or a chair. The candles should already be lit. Put on Queen Latifah’s I Put a Spell on You and begin your lap-dance. Remember the lap dancing rules, your partner must put her hands behind her back and is not allowed to touch you. When your lap dance has aroused your both, make your way slowly to the bedroom or couch.
Sex Position – Love Potion #9
After slowly removing each other’s clothes, the top dons her strap on and position herself missionary style between the bottoms legs. Penetrate her gently, using firm, smooth hip motions to slowly arouse her to a phenomenal climax.
Make your lover a Calypso, a mix of dark rum and coffee liqueur while you relax to the soothing sounds of Nina Simone. You may want to have the drink ingredients already on hand, so you can make them quickly. Accompany it with a dark chocolate truffle; try to find one with a dark fruity centre.
In case you missed our previous week’s Hot Date Nights, check them out HERE.
*These are the opinions of Lesbian Moms Today. They are not intended to be a solution to any particular issue. Each situation is unique and must be approached with the individual’s unique personality in mind.